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    Raising Booey Week 3: Let the training begin!

    As our first month together draws to an end. It is amazing how much booey has learned! He already knows his basic commands (heel, sit, down, come, drop, kennel, off) and is getting very acclimated to all aspects of life. He looks forward to the dog park, walks, and hikes. Overall this little rottweiler puppy [...]

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    Twelve Steps to ending your dog’s treat addiciton

    Let’s face it. Dogs respond to food. Especially when it comes to training. Although we love food too, we do not see it as a life-preserving commodity as dogs do. To them, every morsel is a tiny paycheck that helps pay the bills of life according to what their instincts are telling them. Unfortunately, because [...]

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    Raising Booey: Week Two Let’s start learning!

    Week two has passed and Booey is learning (and growing) each and every moment! We went for his first hike up near the Canine Counselor mountain retreat here near Boulder, Colorado to do some exploring and backcountry training. It was amazing for me to see how even as a puppy, a dog’s natural instinct’s to [...]

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    Raising Booey: Week one, The tale of the Bitter Apple Bandit

    What an amazing week it has been! There is something therapeutic about having to constantly care for and be responsible for a puppy. Maybe it is just me being more distracted than usual? Disallowing me to ruminate on my own human problems. Or perhaps it is the satisfaction I know I will receive by the [...]

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    Biting the hand that feeds you…Don’t be that client!

    The following is a recent email I received from a woman who seemingly needed my help with a dog who had bitten a child, corresponded by a chronicle of what took place once I arrived to help her and her dog: We are a family who rescues dogs. We adopted a couple of puppies about [...]

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    Day One: The first 24 hours

    After pretty much making the decision bf even meeting our new family member by going to petco and getting everything you could imagine a new puppy would need. We actually headed east! To a wonderful dog breeder about an hour away here felsigerberg kennels in Colorado. What made me soo confident that I would take [...]

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    Raising Booey: How one jaded dog trainer took on a puppy of his own

    As you can tell by recent facebook and twitter postings. I have recently acquired a new Rottweiler puppy named Booey. What is most interesting about this is that I, personally have not raised a puppy in over a decade. Not since my old man Bear was a little 8 week old pup himself! Yet, I [...]

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    “You make such great eye contact for an Autistic person…”

    I have chosen the above title out of the glorious joy I received after hearing this from one of my daughter’s (who is on the spectrum as well) therapists. Why find humor in this? Simple, it is a testiment to the lack of focus on recognizing what is to be a spectrumite. By adressing the [...]

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    The Buddha Mind / Seizure Detecting dog

    The Buddha Mind studies with Rupert Sheldrake

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    Temple Grandin Speaking about Animal sensory language

    Temple Grandin speaking about animal sensory language

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As our first month together draws to an end. It is amazing how much booey has learned! He already knows his basic commands (heel, sit, down, come, drop, kennel, off)
and is getting very acclimated to all aspects of life. He looks forward to the dog park, walks, and hikes. Overall this little rottweiler puppy seems to be abosrbing everything I present to him like a sponge!

Housebreaking is going well. I do need to start to give him more unsupervised freedom inside the house though in order to test his limits in how long he can hold it without needing to go again. This is gauged until the next bathroom visit is required or his kennel needs to be used to help him hold it until his next schedule bathroom break. As I have discussed in past articles, this skill needs to be increased gradually as a dog’s ability to go longer between potty visits outdoors increases. Booey seems to be around the 3-4 hour mark and can go slightly longer overnight and in his kennel if I am not home. Again, I will be expanding on this during the next week to see exactly where he is at in his housbreaking skills. In order to make any necessary adjustments to stretch it a bit if possible.

Training time! Yes, the fun stuff has started. Now that a basic foundation of command and structure has begun its establishment, I can expand the expectations of training and work on more fututre goals I have planned for Booey once he is an adult dog. For example: I will be increasing the amount of time committed to focus when in command. Also will be adding increased distractions and distance to “proof” or reinforce commands he has a solid comprehension of. So instead of just practicing in my house or in the yard. I will be integrating training into walks, when arriving at the dog park, when he is heavily distracted, etc. This will begin to take the foundation of commands he has learned, and apply them to situations and environments that may be difficult for him to listen and pay attention to when push comes to shove in the future. Being around so many different dogs and their owners in an applied setting helps me recognize where my training “investment” would be best spent. So I focus on the areas most common for dogs to not listen to their owners.
But even if you do not spend your existence teaching dogs how to respond at times they feel otherwise. Just try to think like your dog, and envision the times and places where a command may be usefull to work on where a dog may not be so quick to respond. Some examples are: seeing other dogs or dogpark, prey animals like rabbits/squirrels/prairie dogs/ etc, seeing new people, great distances, on the trail, and others. Try really learn your dog’s personality and individual motivations. So you may work on areas that you know get them going and would be god to practice. Although it may take some work and consistentency, the intial restriction of having your dog on leash while being trained, pays huge dividends in the future when your dog is reliable on and off leash because of the investment you made. This even applies to adult dogs who may not have made the best associations in certain life instances. It just may take more patience and time. But I have taught even senior dogs a beter recall or how to not pull on the leash. Even though they may have not listened to their potential for years! I’m sure by now you know this means resolving behavior problems as well. (Don’t give up on your dog!)

For my next update I will try to go through some of the elective training I am doing with the pup like fetch, find it, pulling, and how to expand beyond the basic commands with your dog as well. So you and your dog can learn expand your training horizons and experience all the dog world has to offer!

Brett Endes is a Canine psychologist, problem behavior specialist, and author. He is a dog-savant who uses his unique ability to think like a dog to help dog owners coexist with their pets in an enlightened way. He is located in the Denver / Boulder area of Colorado, USA

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Let’s face it. Dogs respond to food. Especially when it comes to training. Although we love food too, we do not see it as a life-preserving commodity as dogs do. To them, every morsel is a tiny paycheck that helps pay the bills of life according to what their instincts are telling them. Unfortunately, because of this many approaches to training that rely solely on treats fail. Instead of creating the desired response or behavior from a dog, only training with food rewards tends to create more of what would be described as addicitive behavior if the same mindest toward food or a substance was displayed by a human. That is why I have followed this brief explanation with a twelve step program for ending your dog’s treat addiction.

All living things need food to survive. When the instinct to be staisfied of hunger is relieved by eating, the brain tells the organism to feel satisfied. A small release of a nuerochemical called dopamine is released to the pleasure sensor of the brain when this happens. This chemical creates the feelings we associate with being satisfied or in bliss after a good meal! this feeling also tells you that you do not need to eat anymore until the next feeling of hunger reappears and needs to be relieved once again. What can happen in dogs (us too) though, is that this subtle “pleasure reward” becomes too needy and inappropriately makes them feel as if they need more food. Even though they are nutritionally content. This can be because a dog is a natural “food hound” and need to learn how to see food as something they do not need 24-7. Or they are conditioned gradually over time by incorrect feeding practices and like many unablances in dogs, are a product of human inteference.

When it comes to training, treats have to be used and delivered appropriately. For the most part as a foundation to teach new concepts or commands or when training a young puppy new life skills. Once used as a foundation however, a dog must quickly learn that your commands or requests in life are what matters most to get everything provided. Not just because you have a treat. As needed and decided by you. This means they are not selective in listening just because you have something that gives them their “fix”. Hardly! It actually means they respect that whatever their opinions are in any circumstance, your decisions (training commands,requests,good behavior, etc) matter most in any situation you may encounter together.
If the relationship you establish with your dog is based on understanding and projecting the right energy, commands, once taught correctly, should apply anytime you ask. Not just when the treat pouch is worn. The following are Twelve Steps To Ending Your Dog’s Treat Addiction:

1) Admit that you only can get your dog to listen when a treat is present and your willingnes to change that.

2) Came to understand that a dog’s natural instincts of communication are more powerful than a piece of kibble or operant conditioning on their own.

3) Made a decision to learn how to rethink how we perceive our pets and learn a better way of communicating with them.

4) Took a true inventory of our dog’s training strengths and weaknesses.

5) Admitted we were not wrong for our actions, but misinformed by the countless misinterpretations out there when it comes to truly understand how dogs perceive reality.

6) Become ready to commit to your dog’s rehabilitation of treat reliance.

7) Humbly allow nature to guide us in learning to understand our dogs.

8) Make a list of all the times our dogs only listend because we had a treat and work on ways to change it.

9) Make sure we accomodate all of our dog’s needs (exercise, training, affection, nutrition, socialization) so they are most likely to respond to our requests.

10) Continue to work on improving our dog’s abilities to listen to us in all of life’s situations even after they have overcome their treat addiciton.

11) Become aware of the forces of energy, morphic fields, projection, and other concepts not always at the forefront of our everyday thought. It is for your dog.

12) Having realized the benefits of communicating, and not just training your dog, I will spread the message of a dog’s pure view and way of interacting with the world to dog owners and dog parks everywhere!

Week two has passed and Booey is learning (and growing) each and every moment! We went for his first hike up near the Canine Counselor mountain retreat here near Boulder, Colorado to do some exploring and backcountry training. It was amazing for me to see how even as a puppy, a dog’s natural instinct’s to navigate wild terrain kicks in! Even my old dog Bear who is 11 becomes a puppy again in the mountains. Prancing around playfully and running back and forth to help guide our “pack”. While him, Booey, my daughter and I enjoyed a beautiful Colorado mountain afternoon with beautiful front range views.
While observing how Booey, the puppy navigated his first wild adventure, in Colorado. I kept saying, “this type of terrain must be like disneyland for puppies!” He probably learned more from being in his natural wild element for a couple hours than he has learned so far in his ten weeks of puppyhood. Needless to say, Booey got an A+ on his trail walking ability. Both him and Bear never strayed afar and even stay with us as we took some off trail routs as well.
Since I spend a decent amount of time at my mountain location. I also began to imprint some of the command work I describe in the next paragraph while up there. This is so he gets used to responding to my command and control at both of our backcountry and regular homes alike. this is in addition to the generalized socializing I want to do with him to the alpine environment. Most importantly…he had a blast! Some dogs only learn how to respond to the environment or situation they were trained in. To avoid this and make your training more applied and practical, make sure you get out there and work with your dog in a wide range of scenarios you may find yourself and your dog in the future. We can learn a concept once and take it with us around the world and beyond. Dogs, being black and white, need to be whats called, “proofed” and shown that what works in one place, can work anywhere…
I have begun leash training Booey and phasing commands he already understands (“Sit”, “Come”, “Kennel”) from primarily being treat trained. Based solely on operant conditioning. I am now raising the bar and working on his mental committment to the task at hand (see past articles on single pointed focus building/ dog meditation) He is a working dog. But any dog can be taught how to focus, as long as it is developed correctly and communicated in a way they understand. With Boeey, I do not expect much at this stage. I do, however want to begin getting past the treat thinking stage and develop a more communicative way of requesting and maintaining his command and focus without relying on or having him always expect a treat. I still, am using occaisional treats to keep the basic conditioning element progressing. But am increasingly having priority one be that his natural instincts as a pack animal see my commands as his different “jobs” or “tasks” to help guide him through the life and environments we share. Especially when I know through experience when a dog could potentially get too caught up in everyday events and how to preventatively guide him to a better, problem behvaior free place. (greetings, new enviroments, when he’s mouhty, etc.)
This will ensure his foundation is only one of appropriate action, and with limited opportunity to manifest unwanted or problem behaviors. This is also why I alway make sure a command is followed through when told. If thats all he knows, his norm will be to respond to what I say without deviation. This will make him a reliable and trusworthy dog.
Although most of the postings about raising Booey are puppy related. They absolutely still apply to an adult dog. It just takes more persistence with older dogs. Since their initial impression of training and leadership by humans may not be what they feel is how they get through each day. Their inconsistent associations to commands (especially “Come”) can also require a real therapeutic process where patience and time are important.
Next week I will give updates on Booey’s progress and talk more about focus building and distraction work when implementing basic obedience commands with your dog. In the meantime, Booey has significantly reduced when and how intense his mouthing is and his potty training skills continue to improve. Although there was one day where he did sneak past my watchful eye and got three pees in…Nature’s Miracle!
Other than that, we keep expanding how long he can go between bathroom visits by using the kennel whenever I feel he needs to go prematurely to his actual ability to hold it. This for most dogs is 1-2 hours for every month of age and longer for overnight as explained in detail in last week’s post.
Until next time, lead your dog and accomodate all their needs, so they may take care of yours!
Brett Endes
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What an amazing week it has been! There is something therapeutic about having to constantly care for and be responsible for a puppy. Maybe it is just me being more distracted than usual? Disallowing me to ruminate on my own human problems. Or perhaps it is the satisfaction I know I will receive by the investment I am making. By taking the time and effort it requires to raise a puppy in a way that will ultimately develop him into a happy, well mannered, and balanced dog. (The world sure could use more of them!) Aside from the fact that Booey is going to be a very large and powerful working-minded dog, I need him to be as socialized and well behaved as possible. Since I use my own dogs to help with my client’s dogs. Not only would it be bad for business if my own dogs were unbalanced. It also would not be helpful to the dogs that need to see examples of what they, too can acheive, if the dog who I am using to do this with is not content and listens to my requests in all environments.
So with that said, I am on the case 24-7! Redirecting chewing on anything innapropriate and discouraging any type of mouthing on skin, clothing, etc. Although it can sometimes be like the scene in Rocky when Mickey is making him chase that chicken. It is very important to minimize the efficacy of Booey’s ability to chew anything other than his appropriate toys/chew items. As I mentioned, since he is only 9 weeks now, I mainly take a passive and redirective approach to curbing his behaviors such as chewing or hyperactivty. For example: when I see Booey is chewing the couch, I calmly but directly approach him and encourage him to “Drop It”. He is still learning this concept (doing much better after a solid week of “drop its” for sure) and I still at times have to open his mouth to release the undesired item (couch) and then present an approppriate chew item with strong encouragement when he begins to chew the correct item. By doing this, at times past the point of being exhausted, I know see him making his own conscious decision to redirect himself towards the right chew items when he gets in the mood to work on something. As he continues to become more aware of his actions, I will continue to positively reinforce all of his appropriate decisions.
The above mentioned recreational chewing and teething, is different though than the more personal act of mouthing or nipping. This means that although taking into account he is a pup learning the ropes of the dog/human worlds. He still needs to be discouraged that any type of mouthing directed towrds humans is unacceptable and will not be tolerated. (It is admittedly difficult at times and I even gave a cute nickname to the times when he gets in a nippy mood, “Alligator Snaps”!) This is simply because I love him and he’s pretty damn cute so my human thinking wants me to givenames and edearments to his actions, even when they would be considered highly offensive by another dog who is the older, more experienced member of the pack he needs to establish himself in. An example of this is how my older dog, Bear let him know that, “if you jump on me or nip at my body, Im going to let you know instantly that I do not play that.” No “alligator snaps” for him… It was one warning growl, and ever since day one, Booey has shown his respect for Bear without fail. As a human, I need to do this in a more indrect and genralized way by using the good ol’ bitter apple, teamed up with some reflex training (not pulling away to encouraging nipping) and redirection as described above. Booey is smart and it only took a couple bitter apple tastes to now disengage his biting as soon as I reach for the bottle. I should invent a holster for bitter apple so owners can have a Quick-draw McGraw ability to respond to the intense nipping many puppies display. Because Bear is a better dog trainer than I could ever be. boey and him are at the point where they actually play together since clear boundaries have been established and maintained. As long as Booey always remembers that Bear is the Master Sensei of the dog martial art type of world they live within and he is just a young disciple! I always say that dogs are the best teachers of one another and the more we learn to understand and project their way of communicating, we are all better off.
Housebreaking is another area I am placing a great deal of focus these first few weeks. I am beginning to learn Booey’s patterns when he is more likely to have an accident and when to use his kennel to teach him how to hold it for longer increments which during the day are nearing 4 hours at a clip and he will hold it overnight for 8 hours without a problem! The main goal of housebreaking is for dogs to learn two skills: 1) To learn that outside is the only availble place to releive themselves, and 2) How to learn how to hold it for increasingly longer periods of time as their ages and abilities increase. So if I took Booey out at 7 AM and he does all his business, I know he will be ok inside for approximately 2 or so hours. What I do is around 9AM I place him in his kennel for another hour, which makes him hold it past the 2 hour mark, and then take him outside around 10AM where he readily does all his business until the next interval. What I am doing by taking this approach is letting his natural denning instincts that disallow potty breaks in his living space to get him to hold it a little past his limit while still accomodating his age and ability (usually 1-2 hours for every month of age and longer overnights). Therefore, I am not using the kennel as punishment for going to the bathromm in my house or for not going outside to completion. A kennel should be neutral place of security for a dog. I actually am using it as a casual tool that teaches him how to go longer and longer by using his natural instincts. By teaching him these skills, I will end up with a dog who only needs be let out 2-3 times per day and goes immediately to completion so I am not spending time in the rain, snow, or when in a hurry waiting for my dog to pick the right “spot” to go to the bathroom or having to take him out constantly to catch him before he goes in my living room from not being taught the above mentioned skills of how to exclusively go outdoors and bladder control.
A final note regarding housebreaking is that your dog needs lots of exercise and stimulation when not in the kennel to offset the the few weeks of being more couped up than usual. This is only a short sacrifice that is best made early so your dog quickly can earn the ability to be more free-roaming throughout your home without the worry of pee and poop on the rugs. The way I see it is that if your dog would’ve been laying around and tired from an active lifestyle, it doesn’t matter if its in a kennel or under your chair. The kennel however, dissallows your dog to sneak of and have an accident when you get busy or distracted from the world of potty training.
To sum up week one of raising Booey; I love him! He is super smart and thrives on structure and promotion of his mind being balanced as often as possible. Alligator snaps are diminishing and 95% of bathroom visits are happening outdside. Socialization everyday. More command work and training in store for this upcoming week. Next weeks update will be covering the basics of puppy obedience training.

The following is a recent email I received from a woman who seemingly needed my help with a dog who had bitten a child, corresponded by a chronicle of what took place once I arrived to help her and her dog:

We are a family who rescues dogs. We adopted a couple of puppies about a year and a half ago who had been in high kill shelters and brought to colorado, fostered and put up for adoption. Our poodle/cocker(they weren’t sure) who is almost two shows fear behavior since the beginning we did some training classes through our vet but still makes us nervous when he is around other people. He sometimes growls and walks around tail down and wiggling, then gets overly excited and sometimes instead of licking sort of jumps up and mouths. Tonight he caught a kid in the eye and it broke the skin. We feel this was probably a play bite accident but I have never felt truly comfortable around him with others and when I wasn’t watching him completely something happens. Would appreciate to hear from you on thoughts of your training methods and if you might be able to help us. I would hate for him to hurt someone else or we would have to get rid of him or put him down if he bites again.

Seems striaght forward enough, right? Here’s what happened when I arrived:

This woman lived in a large gated mini-mansion type house and clearly was used to only allowing those who fit within the confounds of her thinking into her domain. (the fact she wanted to know my “methods” despite it is pretty clear on my website how I view this dog thing that I do, told me, she wanted the dog training to make sense to her) This is of course not how dogs operate and since I exist in their world…niether do I! So, as expected, she was insulted that I, (after reading the above mentioned email about his potential to bite) requested she not allow the dog to run out to greet me and to please put him on a leash so I do not get bit. I do this daily with new people and requested to her to please do the same when we scheduled the appointment on the phone. Literally 100% of the time, they respect what I have been through working with aggressive dogs and recognize why I would be cautious about being bitten. This woman was just offended over the fact I didnt reach in to shake her hand, regardless of the potential for to be bit by her dog who was barking at me unrestrained. Self-cherising ignorance, which is one’s deep rooted inability to see reality past their emotions or operating systems is inherent within all humans. It is those who make efforts through the use of wisdom and compassion who are able to “hear” another person’s (or dog’s) point of view when their feelings are filtering their pure view of what is going on around them. Affecting the reality of themselves, and those around them.
How many people even do this in actual relationships??? So of course, this is normal to a point when we coexist with our pets. It is the ability to open one’s mind and create a transference between themselves and their pets, children, spouses, friends, etc. that makes one truly evolved and capable of mastering the range of relationships we share with other beings. Unfortunately for her dog, the great understanding and empathy I had for her situation was misconstrued as threatening for her. Therapists can experience this. By a patient feeling the therapist is working against them. Simply because they see them for who they do not allow themselves to see and the therapists great empathy is seen as threatening. This is clearly because of the fact that I am sure very few people, if any, have ever had to make this woman examine who she is in another person’s or her dog’s eyes for that matter.
She could sense this in me and within 2 minutes of entering her lavishly decorated home, she explained she felt “threatened” and I was “scaring her dog”. Because instead of biting me as his usual protocol (wouldnt that deep level of insecurity during a greeting actually be considered “scared”?) he peed when I touched the leash. of course, I come of as something different to dogs. This is why I do what I do and feel fortunate to be able to pass on this gift to help dogs and their owners with great appreciation from them. At times, as I chronicle in many of my writings and my upcoming book, the energy I project when I first meet a dog, creates all types of weird repsonses their dogs never displayed…until I showed up! This is why I sometimes ask owners to leash their dogs for our first visit. Even if there never has been a history of adverse reactions to strangers. My energy is different around dogs than your average person, and I recognize this. Again, the fact this woman let her dog run right out, unrestrained, despite his previous history of aggression towards strangers and my prior request to have him leashed, is only a testiment to her irresponsibility as a dog owner, and generalized self-cherishing ignorance that reaches far beyond the scope of her dog ownership abilities. I was just the messenger and her defensiveness to the reality I presented was that she wanted me to leave her home…I was soo hurt and thrown off by how extreme quick the port-hole of her psyche was I even tried to explain that perhaps because I have Asperger’s syndrome, she wasnt used to my speech patterns? (most people don’t even realize Im different and usually are impressed on how I articulate my understand and knowledge of my profession.) As many vampiric/narcissistic types exhibit, she had no compassion or recognition for my ability to have humility as I further explained who I was and why she may be feeling the way she does. All in desperate hopes of trying connect with her to save her dog. This is going on as her highly delusional state continued to increase. Instead of seeing that I was trying to help her and had never had a dog owner respond in this way. I left her home, as per her request. But will make very much sure I hold this experience vividly in my further understanding and knowledge I still accumulate while working with dogs and thier owners.
Clearly, and admittedly so, this article is my own emotional response to this situation in hopes that it helps paint a picture of how an extreme example of self-cherishing ignorance can affect not only our ability to provide contentment and security for our dogs, but makes us bite the hand (pun intended) of those who are compassionately trying to help you. This applies to everything, without question. As Buddhist philosophy dictates; We all suffer from the delusions of self-cherishing ignorance. It is those who strive to become more familiar and aware of it who evolve as content and contibutory individuals in all realms of existence. Both animal and human.

After pretty much making the decision bf even meeting our new family member by going to petco and getting everything you could imagine a new puppy would need. We actually headed east! To a wonderful dog breeder about an hour away here felsigerberg kennels in Colorado. What made me soo confident that I would take home a new addition, besides the fact I told my 6 year old daughter that we may get a dog. Was that after doing research on finding a Rottweiler breeder/importer that focused on what I was seeking in a Rott (only the most solid gnenetics/temperaments and overall love for the breed), they were one of my top choices. And they were right here in Colorado! After getting a little lost down a number of long dirt roads, we finally arrived. As we pulled up, there were about 7 or 8 cute little tanks running around to greet us. My daughter flip flopped every few minutes on which one she wanted, but had my eye on Booey from the start. He was plump and a little pushier than the rest. I liked that! As a more dominant type and guy who is used to handling more intelligent work-minded dogs for a living, I was seeking that in preferably a male dog. After spending over an hour at the breeders, we said our goodbyes, placed him in his first of many kennels as he grows, and headed back home to introduce him to his new home and our other dog, Bear.
Booey was calm and slept most of the way home. Once we arrived, he was eager to explore and investigate his surroundings. That was until Bear trotted downstairs to see what was going on…Booey, who was first to tackle and provoke his littermates back on the farm, realized Bear was the alpha amongst the dogs in this domain. As most dominant minded dogs who are not as tough as they think they may be, they wear what I call, the mask. This is the con game many dogs I see put on when they go to the dog park or doggie daycare for the first time. It is an attempt to hide their true colors to certain dogs. The dogs they know are truly dog-experienced and confident in their assertiveness around other canines. the dogs who will not tolerate the same antics another puppy or human would accept as playful behavior. Because dogs are so aware and smart (I certainly wish more people had these traits) they lay low. This is in order to divert the attention away from themselves from the dogs they know isn’t going to have it if they show their true colors.
This masking dissipates once a dog feels home is more like the dog park and they have nothing to hide. Because they are being led by a well versed human leader in everyday life. In the case of Booey, and most puppies, it really is just lack of excposure to the big boys. As expected, after about an hour, he began to cautiously approach and sniff Bear in an attempt at making an offering to allow him into his new pack. Admitedly, Bear being the only dog for years, despite his regular contact with other dogs and pups, is still warming up as well and is beginning to be less stand offish as the day progresses.
Let’s see, to be avoid running on endlessly as I sometimes can do, I will go over the basic area I focused on and highlights of our first day with our new puppy.
Housebreaking, going almost immediately outside and enjoys being praised for doing so. He holds it in the kennel, despite his mixed feelings on spending more than a few minutes in it. One accident the next morning from not knowing his limit to hold after the previous potty break.
Someone obviously began teaching him how to Sit and am integrating it lighlty (without committment for now) during times of transition (meals, doors, walks, interactions with dogs/people). We went to the dog park today on a light day with some familiar dogs he could begin to socialize with. Although many vets disagree with allowing dog contact before fully vaccinated, I see the result of not enough imprinting to dogs, people, and life in general, at this time when they are most impressionable. Of course, there may be a small chance another dog could be sick there. However, percentage wise, your dog could potentially be far more at risk for euthansia due to aggression for not being socialized enough as a puppy once he becomes an adult. This is the worst case scenario, and Im hardly one to be an annihalist, but my dog is going to be a monster and very intelligent. Im getting hime used to as many dogs, people, kids, cars, places, sounds, and experiences as I can, and as early as possible!
So far we went 2x and the first time, like when first meeting Bear, he was a little low key. Towards the end he started some parallel activities with the other dogs at the dog park here. Paralell activities are not full engagement in play and social behaviors with other dogs. But doing similar types of behaviors like sniffing, laying down, and chasing a ball. By the second time we were there, this eveolved into some actual back and forth competitive play with some younger dogs.
We also spent 2 hours at my daughter’s dance recital practice tonight which gave her exposure to hundreds of kids and adults of all ages. As you could expect, no one could resist the power of the Booey cuteness!
Today he is having less of a fit in his kennel and to be quite frank, I am glad he is. Last night was rough and were gradually integrating the kennel more into his life over the next couple weeks. Although I have to do my job by telling clients to ride it out sometimes. I certainly will be saying it with a bit more compassion from now on.
Right now Me Bear and Booey, after falling asleep with my daughter in bed earlier are relaxing in my office after a long day for all. Everyone is laying on their sides tired, relaxed, and content.

As you can tell by recent facebook and twitter postings. I have recently acquired a new Rottweiler puppy named Booey. What is most interesting about this is that I, personally have not raised a puppy in over a decade. Not since my old man Bear was a little 8 week old pup himself! Yet, I have given advice on how to raise literally thousands of puppies since then. Which on paper should make me pretty qualified to reaise the perfect dog from scratch. I mean, I soo easily and matter of factly can explain to a dog owner that they need to neutralize the energy they are projecting to their dog, for the sake of training. So it should be a piece of cake for me to “practice what I preach” for my new arrival, shouldn’t it?…Not!
You see, with my dog older dog, Bear. He is an extremely easy dog that could probably take care of himself if he ever had to! He never really required much thought of the concepts I teach dog owners. Since the dogs I usually work with need a more structured lifestyle to help them with their prior issues. Bear is a relatively easy dog compared to some of the complicated cases I see in my practice.
Now Booey, is a sweet and overall well behaved puppy (at least so far). He is, however a working Rottweiler and requires a great deal of structure and fulfillment of his need to work and be active on a daily basis. With any puppy, it is necessary to be on the ball and consistent in setting the proper foundation for their future adult lives. Because of this, I now am hearing my own voice talk to me in similar fashion as I do with my clients. Giving me advice that contradicts my human emotions towards this plump little package of gold! Did I just admit to that???
Ok, you got me, Im a sucker for that new puppy smell and the strong nurturing instincts that come forth when undertaking the responsibility and level of compassion one tends to have for a new dog, expecially a super-cute and endearing puppy like Mr. Booey (or “B-dog as my daughter calls him)
Yup, I find myself fighting my own emotions to let him out of his kennel when he’s barking or rushing home after an appointment to make sure he’s ok. Of course, I consistently adhere to certain basics such as no mouthing, getting him used to working for activites, housebreaking schedule, socialization, etc. Which stems from the reality that he is going to be a very large and powerful dog with dominant tendencies and high drive. The other part of me, that I so easily at times had found myself discounting and telling clients to “get over” so many times. Is purely driven by the fact that he is soo cute and has a real endearing personality. This state of mind is what fuels the majority of my interactions with Booey and I’m loving every minute of it!
Here’s where my chronicles begin…I thought it would be interesting to create a blog of sorts dedicated to the upbringing of Booey. As well as a journal of my daily progress, struggles, and doings as I raise my new pup. From both the perspectives of Brett, The Canine Counselor and just a dog lovin’ guy who got a puppy and his inner struggles he faces in his journey to raise the happiest, most well behaved dog possible.

I have chosen the above title out of the glorious joy I received after hearing this from one of my daughter’s (who is on the spectrum as well) therapists. Why find humor in this? Simple, it is a testiment to the lack of focus on recognizing what is to be a spectrumite. By adressing the physical symptoms that only the most severe cases of those with Autism display. This allows them to avoid the reality of the fact that this “difference” may just be a perspective they do not understand or comprehend and not necessarily a disorder. Many neurotypical professionals inability to be deeply self-aware disallows them to view a perspective other than their own and it makes them downright uncomfortable.
On a sidenote: This is precisely what I observe in the interpretation many dog trainers and behavior specialists make when projecting their own individual conciousness onto dogs. Instead of creating an objective transferrence into the dog’s perceptions of the world and the conciousness they live within.
From Doctors to dog trainers, they use an overly simplistic collection of symptoms to neatly organize a disorder that is gravely misinterpeted. So they can put it in the file cabinet between Anxiety and Bi Polar Disorder. (or between Aggression and Barking in the case of dogs)
Although I am not 100% a believer, many feel that those on the spectrum are just tuned into a different frequency and are hardly disordered. The symptoms of non-eye contact, melt downs, and arm flapping are just coping mechanisms to deal with the intensity of the information the world is throwing at them 1000 miles an hour!
I know for myself, I can contently detect a dog’s mouth tense pre-aggression from across the dog park on feeling alone or talk comfortably with clients or friends for hours about dogs or quantum physics. But I can barely look at the person at starbucks who is taking my order for a latte because of how intense it feels to all my 6 senses. It isn’t I want to be brief or rude. It is just that I can only tolerate small doses of certain social situations average people do not regard as stressful. I have learned and continue to learn to navigate the external non-dog world to live a productive and fruitful life. Plus, I have a child. Aspergers or not, the role of being a parent forces you to accept many more situations and environments you would normally avoid if you were ridng solo. Having a less than aware and understanding parent as a child (I was called “gifted” and usually punished more than promoted)has taught me as an adult and dog psychologist how incredibly important the role we play in the lives of any being we are ultimately responsible for is…Both physically and mentally .
This is why I object when my daughter’s teachers only focus on how many vocabulary words she memorizes, yet has nothing to say when it comes to the subject of emphasizing her gifts of creativity and awareness. Or when her therapists talk about how to get her to look into your eyes when speaking with her, but glaze over when I inquire as to the possiblity of the fact that certain people may just have too intense an energy for her and sdhe is just seeing who they are. Which can be intense for me too and at 37 years old, I still cannot engage every person I meet.
Before this post turns into a flat out diatribe. Only want to express the point that just because a child or adult doesn’t act or say things like the average person. It doesn’t mean that they are out there or wrong in the way they approach life’s interactions. It is just that we are receiving information in a way and from a place that is on on a very different level. Based on deep awareness, feeling, and sensitivity. Although there are people out there who disagree with how I approach life this way, it sure has helped alot of dogs and makes me a pretty darn empathetic parent.

Brett Endes

The Buddha Mind studies with Rupert Sheldrake

Temple Grandin speaking about animal sensory language